From Anthony Dowling

Dear Cheating Victim,

You've given all of yourself to somebody. You've revealed your innermost thoughts and feelings. You think your relationship is "special", or that maybe... just maybe... you've found the soul mate you've wanted for so long.

But the whiffs of somebody else's perfume, or the "secret" cell phone calls at odd hours, or the cold feeling when you're intimate make you wonder.

Is he seeing someone else? Is she in somebody else's arms over lunch? Is this person going behind your back like they don't care about you at all... like they're just using you?

Most people have a nagging feeling that their partner is cheating before they really know. But cheating is more (much more) than just a nagging feeling in your gut...

Cheating Could Be Killing You

Cheating not only destroys the relationship you thought you had, and makes you feel used, abused and thrown away. You're probably feeling that way right now, and you don't even know for sure yet whether it's really going on.

What's devastating about cheating is that it also

• Kills your happiness
• Causes depression and anxiety
• Wreaks havoc with your appetite and sleep patterns
• Makes you feel like you're an ugly, or can't measure up in the bedroom
• Exposes you to much higher risk of sexually transmitted disease

All of that because your partner is being selfish and cruel. Cheating obviously isn't a "harmless" game. It's harming you.

The only way to stop it is to know, once and for all, if it's really going on so you can put a cold, hard halt to behavior that's robbing you of the life you should have.